How I Discovered My Soul's Purpose
- Jessica Ellingham
- Apr 30
- 3 min read
Updated: May 2
Welcome love, I’m so glad you’re here!
I’m Jessica—a Soul Purpose/Spiritual Life Coach, Reiki Master, Energy Healer, Astrologer, mom of four amazing daughters, and a recovering people-pleaser with a deep love for learning, gel nails, good coffee, and all things spiritual and sparkly. ✨
But if you’d told me this is where I’d end up—I wouldn’t have believed you.

The Life I Thought I Was Supposed to Live
For a long time, I followed the path I thought I should. I settled down in a small town, got married young and started a family, and poured my whole heart into motherhood—believing fully that being a mom was my only purpose.
And it was, in so many ways. But then life had other plans.
After a divorce, a big move, and navigating life as a single mom, my once-small worldview started to shift. My daughters kept me grounded, and eventually, I got remarried to love of my life—my incredibly supportive and loving husband. Together, we began the next chapter of our family story and welcomed our sweet bonus-baby girl. It was such a fresh and beautiful beginning.
On the outside, it looked like I had it all together.
The Quiet Whisper I Couldn't Ignore
But on the inside? I was quietly wondering… Is this all life is meant to be?
Of course, parenting fulfilled so much of my heart—it’s something I dreamt about for as long as I could remember. And yet, there was still a quiet, persistent nudge that something more was waiting for me.
I tried to ignore it. I felt guilty for even hearing it—like wondering if there was more meant I wasn’t grateful for what I already had.
But the truth is, everything started to shift the moment I began to follow that whisper.

A Series of Signs and a Spiritual Awakening
I’ve always been deeply sensitive, empathic, and intuitive. I notice the little things—angel numbers, nudges from the universe, shifts in energy.
And during a home renovation where everything seemed to go wrong, I started to question it all. Why was the universe blocking this? Why couldn’t anything just go as planned? I even started to wonder… is this house haunted?
Knowing the universe doesn’t mess around, I started looking for spiritual answers. That search led me to a meditation course—and with it, a reconnection to Spirit and a deep understanding of my inner world.
I. Was. Hooked.
I became hungry for knowledge, signing up for every course my spiritual mentor offered. This path led me to Reiki, energy healing, soul purpose coaching, and reawakened my childhood love of astrology. (Yes, I was that kid checking astrology books out of the library and reading weekly horoscopes like they were gospel—even when they made no sense!)

Coming Home to Myself
Each step brought me home to myself.
I began to remember who I really was—not just as a mom, or a wife, or a daughter—but as a soul with her own path, purpose, and gifts.
I learned that my sensitivity wasn’t a flaw—it was my superpower, and the key to unlocking my clairsentience. That being multi-passionate wasn’t messy—it was sacred. And that loving both crystals and designer bags didn’t make me any less spiritual. (Spoiler: spirituality and abundance absolutely can coexist.)
And as I started healing wounds I thought were long buried, I realized how many other women—especially moms—were carrying the same quiet ache.
We lose ourselves in the roles, the routines, the expectations. And beneath it all, there’s often a soft whisper asking…
What about me?

Why I Created Soul Inspired Coaching
✨ I created Soul Inspired Coaching for women like us.
✨ For those who’ve given everything—and are ready to reclaim something for themselves.
✨ For the sensitive, curious, big-hearted souls who know they’re here for something more.
Now, I walk alongside women as they reconnect with who they truly are—through Soul Purpose Coaching, Energy Healing, or exploring the beautiful wisdom of their Birth Chart.
Still On the Journey, Just Like You

And full transparency? I’m still on the journey, too.
I don’t think it ever really ends.
I’m still figuring things out. Still learning. Still navigating motherhood (with three beautifully
neuro-spicy daughters). Still softening my people-pleasing tendencies. Still reminding myself every day that it’s safe to be fully and unapologetically me.
You’re Not Alone
So if you’re hearing that quiet call—whether it’s a whisper or a full-blown universal shake—you’re not alone.
You’re not too late. You’re not too much. And you don’t have to do it all on your own.
I’d be honoured to walk beside you.
✨ Ready to begin?


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